23.5.13

Paradox of Life

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Today we have bigger houses and smaller families;
more conveniences, but less time; 
we have more degrees, but less common sense; 
more knowledge, but less judgment.
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We have more experts, but more problems; 
more medicine, but less wellness. __________________________________________________________________

We spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get to angry too quickly,
stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too often, and pray too seldom.
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We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too little and lie too often.  
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We‘ve learned how to make a living, but not a life;
we’ve added years to life, not life to years.
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  We've been all the way to the moon and back, 
but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. 
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We've conquered outer space, but not inner space.
We've split the atom, but not our prejudice.
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We write more, but learn less;
plan more, but accomplish less.
 
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We've learned to rush, but not to wait;
we have higher incomes, but lower morals.    
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We build more computers to hold more information,
to produce more copies, but have less communication.
We are long on quantity, but short on quality.
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These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion;
tall men and short character;
steep profits and shallow relationships.  
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 More leisure and less fun;
more kinds of food, but less nutrition;
two incomes, but more divorce;
fancier houses, but broken homes.
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That’s why I propose, that as of today,
you do not keep anything for a special occasion,
because every day that you live is a special occasion
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Search for knowledge, read more,
sit on your front porch 
and admire the view without paying attention to your needs. 
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Spend more time with your family and friends,
eat your favorite foods, and visit the places you love.
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Life is a chain of moment of enjoyment, not only about survival. 
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Use your crystal goblets. 
Do not save your best perfume, 
and use it every time you feel you want it. 
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Remove from your vocabulary phrases like “one of these days” and “someday”.
Let’s write that letter we thought of writing “one of these days”.
Let’s tell our families and friends how much we love them.
Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life.

Every day, every hour, and every minute is special.
And you don’t know if it will be your last.
If you’re too busy to take the time to send this message to someone you love,
and you tell yourself you will send it “one of these days “.
Just think…”One of these days “, you may not be here to send it!
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The post above was taken from a file found on my lappy and turns out to be my mom's paper when she took her doctoral study. You know, it's 100000% true.
And as I keep reading it, my eyes get teary. So I want to share this bittersweet post to you guys. Hopefully you will live your live differently as before, make it worth and enjoyable :)
 
                                        

2.5.13

My Turn

Alhamdulillah. Finally I finished my thesis. And I got an A!

Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah. Thanks God for this blessing. Tho I finished my study almost a year late, it doesn't matter. Every people had their own way. And mine is just a lil bit harder the the others, had more .. Well I'm just trying to be positive *smirk*

I want to give my biggest thanks to my parents.. Dear Mom and Dad! I won't be able to finished my thesis without your support and help. Thankyou for always be there for me, for listening to all my stories, for always picking up the phone when I need to hear your voice so I can calm down when I'm going to face my final test. Thankyouu <3

Thankyou my advisor Mr. Sutara for the guidance, Mr. Yusman adn Mr. Kastana for the correction, and Mr. Siswandi from PDAM Menang Mataram for all the help. *deep bow*

All my friends, dedare sasak, Mr. Sut troops, dewei & shinta, ESL45, Kost GPA, and many more I can't mention here one by one. Your support are my power.



Finally, now I've arrived at the intersection. Time to choose which way to go.
 To find a job, to continue my study, or even to find a lifepartner muhahaha I'm kidding.
Everybody, please wish me tons of luck for my next chapter of life ;)


23.3.13

Someday :)

Again. Talking about heart. Talking about feeling.
Talking about Love ; the topic people will never get enough.
How feeling's fade, how feeling's change.
How new people come to our life, and easily go away.

Broken heart. Deep pain.
Get hurt, and it leaves a big scar.
Ended up in trauma.

Scared of meeting new people.
Afraid of getting on the same hole again.
Don't want to be trapped in the maze of love.

You know, all you need is just TIME.
Time to get used to the pain, time to heal it.
Time to erase the scar. Time to let your trauma go.
Time to prepare your heart.
Time to forgive, time to learn.
Time to plan for your next adventure :)

And though it's hard for me to breathe
And even harder to believe
I know that one day i'm gonna find
I'm gonna be just fine
Cause I know that one day i'm gonna feel again..

- Feel Again by Taio Cruz.

I believe :)

2.1.13

Hello 2013.

Dont think that i will wait for you forever. If he makes you cry one more time, i won't wait until you come back. I will be there to take you with me.

 - HJW to LSY from Missing You eps 13.


Good morning people. Happy New Year!
I know it was a bit late to say those words because today is already january the 2nd mehehe but i think the NYE euphoria is still with us. Do you know why i put that quotes at the top of this post? Well, different from other people, actually i just spend my end year time at my dorm, watching some dramas. Idk why but for this NYE moment, i just didn't have any spirit to celebrate it. And the quotes above is from the drama i've been watching for about month and it still have not finished yet. The title is Missing You, starred by JYJ's Yoochun, the one from Rooftop Prince, Yoon Eun Hye, Yoo Seung Ho, Yeo Jin Goo, Kim Soo Hyun and many moreee. The storyline is sooo heartbreaking and the cast are sooo good! I got teary eyes at almost its every episodes and especially for some parts, i cried so hard. Oh Man.




5.12.12

Just, why?

Terus saja mencela orang lain.

Karena diatas segala hinaan yang kau lekatkan kepada mereka, mereka toh menikmati apa yang mereka punya. Mereka hidup bahagia. Bersyukur atas segala hal termasuk kekurangan yang dimilikinya. Yang menurutmu hal itu tak pantas ada di dunia-Nya.

Terus saja rendahkan mereka.

Seakan-akan kau tinggi setinggi langit Tuhan. Tak berkekurangan. Merasa paling berkualitas. Sadarkah kau hidupmu pun tak lebih baik dari mereka yang kau marjinalkan?
 
Tau kah kau bahwa alam semesta ini sudah diatur oleh-Nya?
 
Setiap hal diciptakan berpasang-pasangan.
 
Ada Adam dan Hawa. Ada siang yang melengkapi malam. Ada kematian yang selalu berjalan setia membayangi setiap kehidupan. Ada cinta yang selalu siap untuk memeluk benci. Akan tawa setelah tangis mereda. Dan tau kah kau, tanpa adanya kekurangan, akankah dirimu pernah bersyukur atas segala yang telah Ia beri?
 
Kau tidak berhak menghina kehendak-Nya. Kau tidak berhak menodai jalan yang telah Ia tulis. Bahkan jika jalan yang Tuhan berikan padamu adalah jalan yang baik dan mulus, dan memilih jalan yang kurang baik untuk orang lain. Apakah hal yang patut kau merusak semua rencana indah yang telah dipersiapkan Tuhan? Bukankah kita semua berjalan menuju satu tujuan? Tidakkah akan lebih indah jika kita dapat tertawa bersama pada ujungnya?